Most fake profiles don’t take time to fill in all the sections, or have trouble with correct grammar, or even basic English.

Though I’m sure that’ll change if the fakes care enough to read this article—but don’t worry, they don’t.

After a little while of chatting and waiting and waiting for responses, My response: Unfortunately, you’re running into the sad situation that is online dating.

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If a single you’ve contacted can’t answer basic questions, just gives you one or two-word answers, or gets angry that you’ve questioned if they’re legitimate or not, then move on.

"I have two guys that tell me they love me throughout the day.

They need to make as many contacts as possible—remember it’s a numbers game. You are doing the best you can by being smart and wary of potential fakers. Will enough singles get fed up with the not-so-great state of online dating and demand better from the industry? As a contributor to online dating industry forums, I continue to bring up the issues associated with fake profiles: liars, thieves and cheats, and the accountability of the industry for a solution.

Even if you put on your profile in bold letters, “No Fakers or Sex Industry Professionals,” it won’t help. My suggestion for your first contact, if you’re worried they’re not telling the truth, is to ask them outright. The standard industry reply is that “it’s not cost effective” and that “singles won’t pay for it.” Well, singles are “paying for it” in time, frustration, dissatisfaction and with their wallets.

A system is also in place for men to privately pay the women if they want to. Over the last six years, My Girl Fund has developed into a unique community with its own norms and economy.

While there is a "sex cam" aspect to it, the more interesting phenom here is the platonic relationships that men and women form on the site.

The issue of the fake online dating profile continues to escalate like a hurricane, and drown all the real singles out there in online dating land. The issue remains that the anonymity of online dating has opened the flood gates of liars, thieves, cheats, and the sex industry looking to make a quick buck any way they can.

So, how can singles wade through the muck and find true love?

It’s not as simple as some online dating services claim it is.

Singles, both men and women, are under attack from the fakes.

Do report a fake profile to your online dating service, it’s at least a step in the right direction—you’ll be helping out by not letting the next guy or girl be faked out.