But Lindstrom has a different take on the situation.

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Unless he's being tagged in photos with other girls, and it says he's in a relationship with someone else, in which case-- maybe worry.

(Definitely worry.) Along the same lines--this is not that uncommon.

Charlie, a junior at Loyola University Chicago, says he once fell for one of his girl friends while he was dating someone else.

“If a guy is talking to another girl more than his girlfriend, there’s got to be something there,” he says.

evidence that you exist anywhere on his social media. And you're certainly not Facebook official yet. If your boo is talking to everyone but you online, it seems like he doesn't want to be connected or traced back to you in any way. It happened to me, and it turned out my boyfriend was dating me another girl at the same time. If he has photos of his friends, if he has photos of female friends, then damn sure he can have photos of you. Hiding your significant other from the world seems crazier and more suspicious to me.

His Instagram is full of pictures of his friends, his coworkers, his dog, even some random dog he saw on the street one time. You're definitely not tagged in anything on his Facebook either. It seems like you've got a flirt on your hands who wants to give off the illusion of singleness. If his Instagram isn't strictly professional and he does use it to exhibit his personal life, then you should be on there at once.

“My ex-girlfriend didn’t get jealous when I hung out with other girls, and that was a bigger deal than you’d think,” he says.

But if your boyfriend starts caring more about hanging out with his girl friend instead of you, that could spell trouble.

A lot of people even have the relationship option hidden from their profile.