I’ve been trawling through them all and picked out the best for your pleasure.

So go get looking for love, because these are the best lesbian dating apps.

We updated our description to make it clear that we were now here for all the female and non-binary people out there, no matter what their sexuality was." Her has a global and local feed for users to post their thoughts, so I followed along in the global discussion about the new feature.

While I was messaging her, I scrolled through other profiles.

The major downside of Her is that everyone looks so cool that it’s difficult to work up the courage to actually like anyone.

In the five days I used Her, I talked to 11 users, interacted with a global and local community, and (drum roll here) actually landed a date.

So, while I don’t have any hacks for IRL coffee dates, I do feel a little better about my chances of going on them in the future.

If you want to try the hacks for yourself, download Her from the i Tunes App Store, or request to be notified when Her is available for Android here.

Compared to a few years ago there’s quite a few apps out there for us now.

I had already been messaging non-binary people, so it didn’t change how I was using the app.

The study found that, "after 44 messages you are most likely to get a positive response when you go for the digits." Because users are relying mostly on photos (although there is an option to include small text boxes on your profile) to get a sense of who they want to message, users go into each interaction without a lot of information.

Unsurprisingly, it was the photo of my dog trying to lick my face.