Other claims from the Miami Heat point guard's ex-wife are that she was involved in a violent dispute with him when pregnant, that Dwyane wishes he had never entered the draft, and that she is now struggling to pay bills while her ex-husband enjoys a million salary.

, loves of nearly three years Union and Dwyane Wade talk candidly about their views on marriage — and why Union may be headed to reality TV.

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Jolinda was given custody of the two children, and she moved to her mother's house with them.

The family struggled financially, and it was around that time when Jolinda started dealing drugs.

His mom was addicted to several substances including cigarettes, alcohol, heroin, and cocaine.

Jo Linda would get high with friends at her home, even in the presence of her children.

Wade turned to sports, especially basketball and football, to avoid the temptations of participating in drug and gang-related activities. Wade quickly found success as a wide receiver on the football team, but he needed to work extremely hard to earn playing time on the varsity basketball team during his junior year.

Wade's mom and dad would often take him to the park to play basketball. Wade has stated that his high school coach, Jack Fitzgerald, was one of the most positive influences in his life during this time.

"We're not rushing it," Wade, a 29-year-old NBA player, says.

"Both of us have been married before, and we understand that if we choose to marry again, we want it to be right." (Wade has two sons, Zaire, 9, and Zion, 3, with ex-wife Siohvaughn Funches; Union was wed to NFL player Chris Howard from 2001-2006.) "We both took failing at marriage hard," Wade explains.

After moving to Robbins, Wade didn't see his mother for two years.